Ruined orgasms and prostate stimulation are arguably important practices within chastity relationships, especially when concerning long term orgasm denials. I am a fan of the ruined orgasm, and I simply love doing it to playmates and subs. It’s always unclear as to how many people will conduct, or experience a ruined orgasm, but if it’s something you’re curious about – then be sure to read on. This is a guide to giving ruined orgasms and prostate stimulation – a very good way to empty a boys plumbing during chastity training to ensure that fluid doesn’t have a chance to build up.
What Is A Ruined Orgasm?
Ruined orgasms may incorporate specific elements of teasing and denial it must be noted that the two are not the same. Teasing and denial refers to the art of edging a male sub. The sub might be continuously brought to the edge of orgasm, and once he has reached that edge all forms of stimulation will stop. Resulting in him sitting there, twitching horny as hell. Once the stimulation stops, he will generally receive a break either a complete break or be forced to provide stimulation to his partner, before he is again brought to the edge and stopped. This might happen throughout the session over an hour or so and even longer. However, in tease and denial, he does not experience an orgasm. Period. He might be locked back into the cage and denied the ability to orgasm leading him incredibly sexually frustrated and howling for more. Ruined orgasms take this principle a step further in the sense that semen will be released without a proper orgasm. A release might be in the form of a single drop of semen, or a series of failed and ruined orgasms that will over the course of the session completely drain the sub.
It’s important for the dominant to be paying attention. The critical aspect of any of the techniques that we will demonstrate to you, is that the stimulation must be stopped the second that the sub begins to have contractions. Contractions are easiest to monitor with a restrained sub laying on his back and with his penis just hanging there. How does this work? Well, the ejaculation from the body is not responsible for the contractions. Orgasms will occur as a result of stimulation to the penis during the period that the contractions are occurring before, and during ejaculation.