When you’re deciding to embark on a chastity lifestyle, and you’re looking at purchasing a chastity device most people are looking for an unbreakable cage. The idea of a secure chastity is a common fantasy among men, but where does it come from?
Male chastity is a powerful fantasy, and it begins with the idea of control. Male chastity is primarily about the transferring of male sexuality, literally, into the hands of someone else. Let’s begin this article by exploring the psychology behind such a fantasy.
The idea behind male chastity is an interesting one, since the penis and the phallus is arguably the most masculine part of the body. Why would a male voluntarily want to lock up the very part of what makes them a male? Contrary to popular belief the chastity cage is not necessarily about ideas of infidelity, trust or other relationship concerns. Anyone that is entering into a chastity lifestyle for this reason is probably missing the fundamental point of male chastity, as well as crucial psychological aspects of the activity. Rarely is this activity, or fetish, partner driven. That’s not to say that some partner do not drive this, or bring up the idea that they would like their partner in a chastity device, but that ultimately the choice is in the male and whether or not the activity arouses him in some form. Male chastity is an arousing activity that limits the act of arousal, which I know sounds contradictive but the idea lies in the sense that they find the limitations on the use and performance of their genitals arousing. It is for this reason why male chastity might be something that’s not often talked about – when you’re emasculating a male by taking control of his genitals that might not be something that he’d like to talk about in other males. It’s about appearances, just because he is caged, doesn’t mean that everyone will know that he is caged, and he can therefore act like a male and perform his gender.
Placing a male in a chastity device gives control of his orgasms to someone else. But it’s more complex than that. He will be left with a pure sexual energy which he is unable to channel back into stimulation of his genitals. He is of the understanding and knowledge that he cannot touch his penis even if he wanted to – and once it is caged he’ll want to touch it more than ever. That’s the thing about sex and sexuality, there’s more to it than the physical component, and some people are hardwired into enjoying more than just the physical aspect of sex, and crave a mental component as well. That mental component can be likened to sexual energy, and when he can’t achieve sexual satisfaction then that mental energy can be channelled into more productive things.