If you’re hearing the word ale orgasm denial’ for the first time, you’re probably wondering what the hype around it is and with the term denial, it doesn’t sound so exciting. Far from it. Many couples are using it and are testifying that it’s a perfect addition to sex.
It also works for you if you’re a guy who jerks off a lot. Heck, it packs more punch than a few minutes of intense carefree pleasure.
WHAT IS MALE ORGASM DENIAL?
Also referred to as surfing and edging, male orgasm denial is the practice of stimulating or of your partner stimulating your penis then pulling back when you’re at the brink of orgasm.
When your partner does a blowjob on you then performs a handjob at the last minute before sexual climax, it’s more intense.
When we feel lust, the brain releases a variety of chemicals (testosterone and estrogen), that increase erotic behavior and feelings. Dopamine levels also spike, which make us feel good during, say, sexual stimulation.
In short? Lust for orgasm causes your body to release a hot, heavy mix of chemicals. Release after an orgasm denial causes you to be more in the mood for it than ever.
TYPES OF ORGASM DENIAL
Whether you’re going for a short denial or one that drives your body and brain crazy, there are a couple of creative ways to deny orgasm and bring your wild sexual fantasies to life:
1. TEASE AND DENIAL TECHNIQUE
This method permits sexual stimulation but to an extent. Tease and denial mostly replaces sex with touching, kissing, and foreplay.
It may or may not involve oral stimulation, but what makes it addictively arousing is the fact that denial can happen at any time.
2. RUINED ORGASM
During this technique, a man’s partner denies him the pleasure of climaxing midway through their orgasm.
They may arrive at the edge, go over, choose to come and then suffer interruption, reducing the pleasure they would feel.
It’s exactly what the name suggests: No sexual friction and no stimulation. A man has to endure days of painful but exciting sexual torture from his partner.
Whether it’s through words, sexually exciting outfits, or actions, the partner makes the man crave for sex but he can only look on.
Edging requires lots of skill as actual sexual intercourse is involved. You have to reach a climax, get to the edge, and withhold.
If you’re looking to try it, you must know when you’ve reached your limit and your physical control to withhold.
PERKS OF ORGASM DENIAL TO MEN
Male orgasm denial gives orgasm a whole new name. It offers an incredible sense of pleasure and only gets better when repeated. An enjoyable denial results in an unforgettable final moment of orgasm.
Also, through it, you learn to have control over your orgasms, for you to prolong your state of arousal. If you play the submissive role, you can use it in a delicious array of role-play scenarios.
TO THE PARTNER…
The feelings of domineering and sexual power that come with male orgasm denial are magical. And, well, you get to control your man’s orgasm.
For both the man and the partner, male orgasm denial strengthens the bond between couples as it involves foreplay, teasing, interaction, coercion, and (sometimes) sex.
TIPS FOR AN ENJOYABLE DENIAL SESSION
1 TRY IT ALONE FIRST
If you’re new to orgasm denial, it won’t hurt to try it out solo to know your boundaries and determine if you’re okay with trying it out with your partner.
2. HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR PARTNER
There’s more to male orgasm denial than stimulating and denial. Discuss the dynamics of the technique between yourselves and agree on a step to take should any of you need relief.
Are you skeptical about using sex toys such as whips? Or being ordered to come on demand? You can do away with them and have one hell of a denial session.
There is a submissive and dominant element to male orgasm denial. Still, you can choose if you want to add power dynamics into the stimulation exercise and the extent you’re willing to go.
4. MILKING IS A MUST
There’s so much prostate fluid that builds up during male orgasm denial and it can have harmful effects on men. Therefore, no matter the method, we recommend a prostate massager, please allow your stallion to come after an orgasm has been achieved.